Sunday, January 22, 2012

Hang Me Up to Dry


Hand-washing laundry is one of the most avoided things in my life. I can find so many other things I would rather be doing than laundry these days. The worst part is I am having to wash all the clothes I left here clean in September because they now smell like mold and must. The washing machine broke and it costs about $100 to fix it because it need a new motor, but I'm pretty much holding out to just buy a new washing machine since they're not much more than that. Needless to say, my hands are incredibly dry and full of tiny cuts because of all that soapy water they handled today, not to mention wringing out jeans a million times. Washing clothes by hand stinks.

I received our wedding invitations today! It's like totally real now. The date is set, the invitations are ready to be passed out and/or mailed, and the mind begins to race. On top of wedding stuff, I am also busy grading assignments and teaching in DTS as well as SBS. PLUS, this week is the "Arts Gathering" which is this huge event that the Creative DTS and our base has been building up to over the past 5 months and now it is finally starting on Wednesday and I am to play a small role in that as well. This also means that our base currently has seven zillion people and there are a lot of mouths to feed. Water will run out within minutes, food will run out within the same amount of time, the internet will be overloaded, and people will forget what "privacy" means. Thank God I live in a house off-campus.

I know Christmas has come and gone, but I still haven't posted pictures of my time in Nagaland on here for you guys, so I'll post the greatest ones. The pictures that show you what it really is like living in the Northeastern part of India. I hope you enjoy them and feel free to ask questions about anything Naga related, or even anything going on in my life at the mo (I've always wanted to say "mo" instead of "moment").

Except, don't ask how the wedding preparations are going because seriously, EVERY SINGLE PERSON ASKS ME THAT QUESTION EVERY SECOND OF EVERY DAY.

Romel's family's backyard

The view from the bamboo porch

The conquering hero: we ate this chicken for dinner which he killed himself and soon after he took all the feathers out. What a man!

Love these baskets!

Some friends on my birthday.

Christmas morning service at church. Women's ministry singing.

Chickies!

Mom, Dad, Sister, and little Jonah with Dad.

JONAH! The 2nd cutest kid next to my nephew Jak.

Making some pancakes for breakfast.

Dear friends' wedding!

On the way to Romel's mother's village near Kohima.

Some of Romel's relatives.

Hello Kohima.

Honeybee larvae at the market. Yes, they eat it. All of it.

Some worms that were still moving that again, they eat. Also some honey still part of the hive.

My travelling buddy. A goose which we ate that same evening. 

The World War II memorial in Kohima. This is where the Japanese entered Nagaland in 1944. In fact it was on 4/4/44 around 4:00 PM when they invaded Nagaland. Seriously.

A tank left as a reminder of the winning of the war. That is Romel's uncle standing next to it.

Smoked pork hanging from the ceiling of Romel's Aunt's kitchen in the village.

A traditional meeting house called a "Morung." This one is for the Angami tribe which is the tribe Romel's family is.

Romel demonstrating how they play their traditional drum that calls the village to the meetings.

The view from the traditional village.

A garbage made of bamboo! 

You will never truly see the beauty of Nagaland unless you go there yourself. I always thought I'd have to go to China or Taiwan to see rice patty fields that are tiered, but I'm marrying into a culture which earns its living from those same rice patty fields.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Get Off Your High Horse!

I have had the absolute worst attitude lately. Ever since I returned from the US I have been a little bitch. Pardon my French. Mostly I have been incredibly critical of everything and everyone. Somehow I have ended up on top of this tall pedestal where I look down on the people and world around me. I have been selfish and I have basically been a big baby. Everything is about me and making me happy.

The irony is that no matter what I do or how many times I might get my way, I am not happy. Vanity of vanities, all is vanity. I am very much reminded of my Ecclesiastes teaching last year. If you enjoy things of the world without God in the midst of that enjoyment you will never be happy and you will never be satisfied.

I've been filling my time with reading The Count of Monte Cristo, Boy Meets World, Glee, McDonalds and chocolate. None of these things bring me that peaceful happiness that I used to live with. Instead I finish one thing and immediately run to another. I am not sure how I got to this place, but I'm sure it has something to do with apathy and laziness. Not to mention that d-bag, Satan.

The McSpicy Chicken sandwich only available in India. SO GOOD.

I even prayed with a dear friend of mine who was confessing and repenting of a struggle that is happening with both of us, and I did not even feel remorse. I did not even feel bad or convicted or that I needed to change my way of living even though I knew that I need to repent and try to change things.

Yesterday morning I began to write in my journal, it seems that's my best communication with God. I am just starting to realize if I don't write in my journal each day then my day feels empty. So, I was writing in my journal for the first time in a stinking long time, and suddenly this overwhelming sense of confession came over me and I just started writing all the things I have been filling my life with instead of good things, godly things. I have been living the Ecclesiastes lifestyle. Fo rizzle. It's not that watching Cory Matthews and Topanga Lawrence have another fight is wrong, but it is if I fill my time with John Adams High drama without inviting my Father to join me. He created man in His image which means we are somewhat like Him, which means we are creative like He is creative (except we cannot create out of nothing) and therefore, He gave man the mind to create the storyline of Boy Meets World and therefore I should enjoy it!!! But I must acknowledge His part in it. Not praise the show, but praise the Maker of the mind which created the show. Whew!


Shawn, Topanga, Cory, and Eric. I seriously wish they were not only real people, but my best friends.

 I could write a lot more, but I don't want to scare anyone away from reading a "long" worded entry. However, I will say this one thing: The Count of Monte Cristo is pretty much one of the greatest books ever written. The movie is insulting to the genius of Alexander Dumas. The way Edmond Dantes seeks revenge is actually the most interesting and time-consuming planned-out vengeance plot I have ever seen and if you have never read this book I highly recommend it. Do yourself a favor and check it out from your local library or if you have a Kindle, you can download it for FREE! It's one of those free classic books. It may be a long book, but you won't be able to put it down. This is probably my fourth time reading it. It never gets old.

Besides, who wouldn't want to read a book written by this guy?